Communication is the process in which information is transferred. Sometimes it is abrupt, crass, and confrontative; and at others compassionate, caring and loving. Regardless, the information has been transferred. The word "violation" infers an abuse; the use of power to inflict harm. It predisposes a malevolence…. A distrust..... A pervading undercurrent of disrepute. More often than not, many of us use such words without thinking, and in so doing, only reinforce the entitlement from which we sit. Whether it be politics, religion or simply our everyday relations, our choice of words matter.